i need a friend, this will help my stress.

[sam]

where can i find friends in my town? I dont go to bars/clubs, and the church groups are all busy or the ladies are married and dont have time for me...I tried joining some groups but the people are all depressed or dont want to do nothing..I also tried putting a personal ad but the girls who answered were into drugs or wanted to act like sluts. (no thnks). I just want someone nice to go out to a club with or lunch, to talk, go to the mall..etc...but when i go out to a club by myself, the girls just want sex only.. I feel like being alone ...its ridiculous...i hate being single.

[mamalisa422]

Hello Sam...well I have a fiance' so I cant go out with you but good luck with that! I did however find the thing you said about the GIRLS in the club being the ones who only want sex...lol! I always thought that was the other way around, haha!

Best wishes...take care

Lisa

[sam]

hello lisa , thanks for the reply and the concern and about that other way around, well u are right , but girls are also same way around, anyways once again thanks for the reply and would be waiting to hear more from u , atleast i can find friend outhere .


thanks,
sam:)

[Aussiemum]

Hi Sam,

I too would like to be your friend.

I am married and have a 1 yr old and a 3 yr old but I have no friends.

its is nice to have the company of somebody but there are also benefits in being single..!
Where do you live...what country?

I think this will be a great place for so many people, we can help each other and enjoy stories and have a laugh with other anxiety-stressed-depressed sufferers.

take Care and hear from you soon..

AnnMaree:)

[mamalisa422]

Hi Sam...so whats up man how you doin? I'm doin allright this morning. Just takin care of my lil man...I have a 2 yr old, he helps alot with my anxiety because he keps me busy and distacts me from worrying and stressing out...lol! Maybe you should go out and have some kids...no I'm just playin, hehe! Well hope alls well with ya!

[Aussiemum]

Hi Sam....Hi Lisa,

so how you both doing??

Were do you both live?

I have 5 mins to myself so thought I would see what you two are up2!

my Husband and I took both our kids to a Native Australian Animal Park today.
Its was great to see the kids run around and I laughed so much. Its was nice to have fun and de-stress! However the deadly snakes made me a bit tense!:eek:

Thanks again Lisa for the follow up on my fear of Dying, I really appreciate you being open about it. I have to remind myself 4-8 times a day that I'm ok and that ache or pain is normal!!
How can medication make you stop having those thoughts? Is the medication for general Anxiety?

Can I ask you Sam, do you suffer from a general Anxiety or is yours more a fear or depression.

Hope to get to know you both.

Bye for Now,
AnnMaree

[minxy]

hello sam , lisa and annmare , it really feels good that the forum is growing and members are becoming more interactive and its good to be friendly with each other cuz that way we would get to know each other well and there would be more interaction betwn the members .

thanks,
minxy.

[sam]

hello lisa , annmare and minxy thanks for ur reply and concern and lisa and annmare thanks a lot for ur friendship and concern , it really feels good to hear from u all and now i'm not feeling alone anymore and i'm feeling good and positive about life now a days and that all goes to this forum and the members specially lisa , annmare , minxy , spidy , mesandy ; and would love to hear more from u .

thanks ,
sam.

[Aussiemum]

Hi Sam and lisa..

How are you both doing?
I have had a great few days. We are renovating our house so I have been really busy. so busy that i havent had time to worry!!
I hope you are both well. Please write and let me know..
bye, Annmaree

[Aussiemum]

Sorry Minxy, I forgot to ask about you!!
Take Care..AnnMaree

[Aussiemum]

Hi Sam,

how have you been..?
Havent heard from you in a while.

Check back soon and update us on your progress.

AnnMaree :)

[sam]

hello annmare, how do u doing , i was a bit busy in some project work cuz of that can't able to post , anyways now i'm here and already posted and about how i'm , i am fine , feelling really good and all that goes to this forum and the members outhere like u annmare and i found a new member koshi bara and she is younger than me and she is really going through a great pain and i wish she get rid of that all pain she as gone through as soon as poosible and what about lisa its been while since i hear from her , do you know anything about her annmare .

take care and have a good sunday ,

thanks,
sam.

[Aussiemum]

Hi Sam,

I'm doing ok. Having my ups and downs!!
glad you are well, I just hadnt heard from you in a while so I was worried about you!
i am not sure about Lisa, she may visit us again?
I have been writing to Koshi-Bara and you are right she is in pain. there is a long road ahead for her but i believe she is strong enough and smart enough to beat this!

Well thanks for writing to me Sam, its great to hear from you.

Your Friend, AnnMaree

[~Nicky~]

Hello Sam and all of you!!
Well i understand how life is without a friend. We all need a friend with whom we can share our joys and sorrows and who can show us ways when we are in difficulties. But you should be very careful while choosing friends. I should say that i have been very lucky in having friends. My friends have always given me good advices and we have always been helpful to each other. But when we completed our secondary studies, we parted and now we can't meet so often because we are all working.
Well i find this a great place and who says that you don't have friends! I find that you have lots of friends over here and you can include me in your list too. It will be a pleasure for me to have a friend like you. take care!!