tullyFrutle
07-26-2008, 07:57 PM
Oi guys
Im a very "strong" christian and I guess I have a few questions on my mind..
I've been thinking a lot about dating.. but im not sure where to begin.
My buddies have been telling me christian dating is the way to go.. so I've done a little research on Totally Free Christian Dating Sites (http://www.breakingthelight.com/?christiandating=399)
The below is a little essay I found on google (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=breakingthelight.com&btnG=Search)
"Be clear about which Christian denominations you will accept. For example, if you are a Lutheran man and you want only to meet other single Lutheran women, set your match for Lutheran. If you are a Catholic woman and you're open to meeting a Catholic, Baptist or Presbyterian man, mark that down.From some of my research I have found several Christian dating services. They also specialize in Black Christian Dating. What I think is powerful is that they give you 7 (seven) days to try it for free. That can't hurt! Also they have a listing of ministries and notable leaders in the body of Christ that endorse the service.Free Christian dating is a great way to find others who share specific beliefs, morals, and values. The only real requirement for most of these services is a commitment to a spiritual lifestyle, regardless of the denomination. However, some free Christian dating services may have certain demographic requirements, such as age or income level. These types of services simply narrow the search for their subscribers by limiting the dating pool through member requirements.When it comes to earthly passions, having someone tell you they love you may be flattering but just smile. A proper gentleman should always know in his heart that he should never get angry with a proper Christian girl if she doesn't agree with his sinful desires. When faced with such a lusty predicament, ask him what Jesus would do. If all doesn¡¯t go so well between you and him, you must admit to yourself that it simply wasn¡¯t meant to be (at least, maybe not this time). If he persists, you may wish to dump him, but remind him that Jesus will always be with him.# A good Christian dating site has the ability to protect your privacy. In other words, you should be able to have complete control over things like your name, true e-mail address, phone number, etc. For example, quality Christian dating sites will have ¡°in house¡± chat and e-mail addresses that allows you to remain anonymous while contacting other members. While we¡¯re on the subject of privacy, you may also want to check with customer service to see if the dating site ever sells your personal info to other online dating sites (very common) or telemarketers. If you find out that is the case, it¡¯s time to try out another Christian dating site."
What do you people think?
Any advice?
Blessings
Im a very "strong" christian and I guess I have a few questions on my mind..
I've been thinking a lot about dating.. but im not sure where to begin.
My buddies have been telling me christian dating is the way to go.. so I've done a little research on Totally Free Christian Dating Sites (http://www.breakingthelight.com/?christiandating=399)
The below is a little essay I found on google (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=breakingthelight.com&btnG=Search)
"Be clear about which Christian denominations you will accept. For example, if you are a Lutheran man and you want only to meet other single Lutheran women, set your match for Lutheran. If you are a Catholic woman and you're open to meeting a Catholic, Baptist or Presbyterian man, mark that down.From some of my research I have found several Christian dating services. They also specialize in Black Christian Dating. What I think is powerful is that they give you 7 (seven) days to try it for free. That can't hurt! Also they have a listing of ministries and notable leaders in the body of Christ that endorse the service.Free Christian dating is a great way to find others who share specific beliefs, morals, and values. The only real requirement for most of these services is a commitment to a spiritual lifestyle, regardless of the denomination. However, some free Christian dating services may have certain demographic requirements, such as age or income level. These types of services simply narrow the search for their subscribers by limiting the dating pool through member requirements.When it comes to earthly passions, having someone tell you they love you may be flattering but just smile. A proper gentleman should always know in his heart that he should never get angry with a proper Christian girl if she doesn't agree with his sinful desires. When faced with such a lusty predicament, ask him what Jesus would do. If all doesn¡¯t go so well between you and him, you must admit to yourself that it simply wasn¡¯t meant to be (at least, maybe not this time). If he persists, you may wish to dump him, but remind him that Jesus will always be with him.# A good Christian dating site has the ability to protect your privacy. In other words, you should be able to have complete control over things like your name, true e-mail address, phone number, etc. For example, quality Christian dating sites will have ¡°in house¡± chat and e-mail addresses that allows you to remain anonymous while contacting other members. While we¡¯re on the subject of privacy, you may also want to check with customer service to see if the dating site ever sells your personal info to other online dating sites (very common) or telemarketers. If you find out that is the case, it¡¯s time to try out another Christian dating site."
What do you people think?
Any advice?
Blessings