Anger Test
Anger is normal human emotion. It is healthy when controlled.
Human beings rarely act physically expressing the anger. We have
language hence we use verbal abusing and then only physical rage is
followed if anger is not controlled. It can lead problems with
family members and work place.
Anger is an emotion accompanied by physiological and biological
changes.
Your
heart rate and blood pressure go up when you are angry. As well as
your energy hormones, adrenaline and noradrenaline will
increase.
A person could be angry at a specific person or event or anger may
be caused by worrying about the personal problems. Memories or
enraging events can cause angry feelings. Naturally anger is
expressed aggressively.
So there are fights and hence we defend us if we are attacked.
We can not physically attack every person or object that irritates
us or annoys us. Norms of social behavior should be followed.
There are three main approaches to anger expressing, suppressing
and calming. When you express your feelings in controlled manner it
assertive manner and it is healthiest way. It is difficult to do
this. You need to know your needs, how to get them met, without
hurting others.
It means being respectful to yourself and others. When anger is
suppressed, it is not allowed outward expression and it can turn
inward on you. It may cause hypertension, high blood pressure or
depression.
The test that measures the heart's response to anger and mental
stress is anger test. It helps to identify people who are at risk
of having a heart attack as per researchers report. Scientists
found that patients with higher level of anger also face problem of
reduced oxygen supply to heart muscle (Ischemia).
This increases the risk of heart attack. Ischemia is measured
when people are doing exercises or it is treadmill test. But people
never face ischemia when they are exercising. It may happen when
people spend more of their time mentally stress.
Anger has to be a risk factor for heart disease. A survey has
shown that people who reported high levels of anger were more
likely to have ischemia.
Women are more affected by this. But it does not mean that men
do not get angry as women. Men often underestimate their anger. So
anger control may help to reduce the risk of heart attack. So anger
test confirms the importance of emotions contributing to physical
disease.
The Anger Self Test
Anger is an emotion which is experienced by everybody. It is not
abnormal to be angry. Anger is healthy until it is expressed
controllably. When it is uncontrollable it may disturb the
relationship with family and colleagues. It has adverse effects on
our life quality. Anger can be expressed assertively to get
positive response and better situation.
If anger is repressed it is unhealthy and to express it
impulsively may give momentary relief but inevitably give negative
consequences. So to change our angry responses we need to
understand from where it comes. A person could be angry at a
specific person or event or anger may be caused by worrying about
the personal problems.
Memories or enraging events can cause angry feelings.
Naturally anger is expressed aggressively. So there are
fights and hence we defend us if we are attacked. We can not
physically attack every person or object that irritates us or
annoys us.
Norms of social behavior should be followed. There are three
main approaches to anger expressing, suppressing and calming. When
you express your feelings in controlled manner it assertive manner
and it is healthiest way.
It is difficult to do this. You need to know your needs, how to
get them met, without hurting others. It means being respectful to
yourself and others.
Anger can be controlled by simple techniques. Relaxation tools
such as deep breathing can help calm down angry feelings. Breathing
deeply and repeating soothing words like "take it easy" will
enables you to reduce angry feeling.
Practice this technique daily. Slow yoga and meditation is
another way to relax.
The other way is to change the way you think. If we could not do
so then we have to check whether we have problems of anger
disorder. To check this we need to answer some questions
honestly.
This is anger self test.
Answer the questions can be given in
yes or no.
* Many times you feel tense
* You could not say what is on your mind
* When you are upset you try to forget it by watching TV, reading a
book or magazine.
* You are addicted to smoking to help you calm down.
* You have trouble with sleep
* Many times you feel misunderstood or not listened to.
* People say you curse so much.
* You hurt your loved ones when you are angry.
If there are positive answers to 0-3 questions you could benefit
from relaxation. If there are 3 to 5 yes answers then you are
moderate and need to learn more about your stress management
If there are more 6 yes answers then you have an anger problem
and you need to take help of counselor.
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